Here are some of our books, activities, crafts and songs (look here to see where most of my ideas are gathered from):
Spider's Lunch by Joanna Cole; The Very Busy Spider by Eric Carle
The Jumping Spider by Alice B. McGinty; The Eensy-Weensy Spider by Mary Ann Hoberman.
8 Spider web lines hanging down; with a thumbprint spider and 8 legs on each one. (most of Speedy's have 8 legs, anyway; he doesn't like help.)
Cheese! And spiders.
Watercolor resist web: we drew webs with white crayon on white paper and watercolored over it. Plain black would have been too boring, as you can see!
Handprint spiders: I traced the kiddo's hands on black paper, then we cut them out and cut the thumbs off. Glued the palms together (so the fingers are spider legs), then glued on googly eyes.
We used some black pom-pom fuzzies to be our spiders for singing 'The Itsy-Bitsy Spider' (english and spanish), 'Some Spiders like to Crawl...', and 'There's a Spider on Your Nose...'
Some spiders like to crawl, (x2) Spiders, spiders, everywhere; some spiders like to crawl. (Add in any other actions spiders do: run, jump, hide, fish, etc.)
Spider On Your Nose by Jean Warren (to tune of 'If You're Happy and You Know It')
There's a spider on your nose, on your nose. (x2) There's a spider on your nose, Let's see where else it goes. There's a spider on your nose, on your nose. (keep singing with other body parts.)